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Beyond Palliative Care – A Best Buy

The past week has been a difficult one for Cindy’s care.  In the wake of her coming off hospice I had to make decisions regarding her Medicare coverage and procurement of a hospital bed.  The bed we were using had … Continue reading

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Beyond Palliative Care – The Difficult Choice

Shortly before Cindy was removed from hospice they asked me whether beating the odds for keeping her alive was really what she would have wanted.  They were questioning whether choosing quality of life measures over palliative care actually gave Cindy … Continue reading

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Beyond Palliative Care – Quality of Life

The VNA provided a “comfort pack” for Cindy when they placed her on hospice care.  The pack included medicine deemed necessary to comfort a hospice patient during the final decline, with everything from suppositories to morphine.  I only use lorazepam, … Continue reading

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Beyond Palliative Care – Physical Therapy

Once Cindy struggled to walk, I requested that the VNA provide me instruction for physical therapy exercises to do with her.  She receives these exercises to preserve the range of motion in her limbs 4-5 times a day, mostly from … Continue reading

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Beyond Palliative Care – Feeding

Patients admitted into a hospice program have been diagnosed with a terminal illness.  Palliative care to make the patient comfortable then replaces curative treatment.  As we neared the time for Cindy to come off hospice, my efforts to maximize her … Continue reading

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A Change is Gonna Come

“There have been times that I thought I couldn’t last for longBut now I think I’m able to carry onIt’s been a long, a long time comingBut I know a change is gonna come, oh yes it will.” A Change … Continue reading

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Emotional Decline – The Triumphs

Stages of Decline Outline:  Final Installment Cindy and I agreed after her diagnosis to make our experiences public, hoping that our efforts to live well in the face of tragic adversity will benefit others.  With that intention I conclude this … Continue reading

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Emotional Decline – The Tribulations

Stages of Decline Outline: Eleventh Installment The totality of Cindy’s physical decline created some health and comfort problems for her care.  Without any emotional or verbal feedback these Tribulations required guesswork that added to the Trials of her emotional decline. … Continue reading

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Emotional Decline – The Trials

Stages of Decline Outline:  Tenth Installment All previous stages of decline overlapped gradually with each other, not so with the final stage of emotional decline.  In March of 2019 Cindy had her first ever and still most severe seizure.  From … Continue reading

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Physical Decline – The Triumphs

Stages of Decline Outline:  Ninth Installment The lesson to be learned here is another life lesson which can be broadly applied.  Perseverance and an active, positive social network are the keys to any kind of success, including caregiving.  In particular, … Continue reading

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