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The inspirational true love story of Kirk and Cindy’s determination to live well despite her tragic affliction with Alzheimer’s.

Acceptance and Alzheimer’s

Time to complete this series on the five stages of grief and Alzheimer’s before we leave for our PCT journey.  To recap, the first four stages of grief according to Kubler-Ross are Denial, Anger, Bargaining (guilt) and Depression.  They are … Continue reading

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Many Tests

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Cindy spent all morning getting MRI scans; in the afternoon she went through a variety of physical tests. Sprinkled throughout were a variety of interviews for research and publicity. Carson and his research team made Cindy feel at ease throughout. … Continue reading

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Exercise Isn’t Patentable

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We are in Maryland for three days while Cindy goes through testing for Dr. J Carson Smith’s research for exercise and brain health. We are raising funds for this research, which to date has shown more promise for healing brain … Continue reading

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Depression and Alzheimer’s

Ironically, this fourth stage of grief is the flip side of the final stage of acceptance.  A depressed feeling of hopelessness is accepting the negative, the tragedy of a situation.  Of course others want to help, quite apart from whether … Continue reading

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Bargaining and Alzheimer’s

“Bargaining” is the official term for the third stage of grief, though you could also call it “Guilt.”  The Bargaining stage is when you make your deals:  “If only things get better I will ….. ”  The deal you cut … Continue reading

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Anger and Alzheimer’s

Anger is the second stage listed for the five stages of grief model by Kubler-Ross.  When it comes to Alzheimer’s there’s plenty for caregivers to get angry about. I’m a person who starts with myself, always self-evaluating, looking to see … Continue reading

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Denial and Alzheimer’s

In regards to Cindy’s Alzheimer’s I’ve gone through something like the five stages of grief theorized by Kubler-Moss.  This model allegedly applies only to those not handling tragedy well, the well-adjusted presumably turns lemons into lemonade.  Though there is a … Continue reading

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Pain Does Not Always Protect

Pain is a warning sign for our bodies, encouraging to desist and avoid whatever we are doing that might be causing the pain.  Yet exercise can cause pain, anywhere from sore muscles to aching joints.  If athletes let pain ruled … Continue reading

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Alzheimer’s: To Know or Not to Know

Should a person know whether or not they have Alzheimer’s?  My mother did not know, but this was at a time when senility was thought to be the common plight of aging folks.  There were medications back then as well, … Continue reading

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Can There Be Too Much Caregiving?

I read a blog entry today that reflected on a hazard of caregiving, becoming addicted to being the caregiver for a person with Alzheimer’s.  As the disease progresses you have to do more and more for the person until, in … Continue reading

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