As I hiked across the plains I often heard the lament that Americans do not want to work hard any more. What prompted this lament was the influx of Mexicans to work in meat-packing plants. If we are to consider … Continue reading
Work and Community – Part Two
There are a few lessons to be learned from early nomads in regards to our health and happiness. Why they can provide lessons is they did not evolve over hundreds of thousands of years to be unhealthy and unhappy. For … Continue reading
Work and Community
I saw a thought-provoking post on cyberspace the other day, offering a litany of complaints about our country. The poster was wealthy and famous. Is anyone really surprised that the demographic that we hear complain about our political and economic … Continue reading
Norris Square Community Lessons
I made a blog entry about Norris Square just a short while ago. For those who prefer to wait until the movie comes out here’s a podcast I created.
Sportsmanship in El Paso
This is another video going viral. Part of me thinks “Why bother, people will find it on their own?”; the other part thinks “It moves me so let’s move others in case they wouldn’t find it?” Catch in particular the words of the opposing player; it’s what kindness and empathy are all about.
NCCC Testimonial
Yesterday I gave a talk at Northwest Community College, sponsored by the Northwest Community College Foundation and the Peggy Andl Fund. Excuse my excitement over the glowing endorsement I received from organizer Sue Berg.
Kirk gave a loving and inspirational speech at Northwestern Connecticut Community College on Thursday. Honestly I didn’t know what to expect but my expectations were met and then some. He delivered a message of love and kindness rarely heard in public these days . He was also entertaining and refreshingly honest. Most importantly to me, as a community worker myself, he gave me new approaches to nagging problems and ideas for future use. win/win/win
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Norris Square Community Lesson
Hiking across the country I gathered many stories revealing important community lessons. There was one story I often gave at my talks about a community I visited before the ADT journey. During a mission trip to Philadelphia I visited the impressive Puerto Rican community at Norris Square.
Norris Square was once riddled with drugs and crime. Being a particular ethnic enclave they received little to no attention from the city police. If things were going to change in that neighborhood, community members themselves would need to be the cause.
They came up with a brilliant strategy. A group of community members started hanging around where the drug dealing was happening. They did not confront the dealers; that would have been stupid. No single individual did the loitering; that would have been stupid as well. Yet simply loitering in mass around the drug dealings made the dealers uncomfortable, and they moved elsewhere. If still in the neighborhood dealing, community members shifted along until the dealers finally went outside the neighborhood.
This was a Phase One. Phase Two for Norris Square involved growing community gardens in abandoned lots and painting tasteful, cultural murals on the walls facing these abandoned lots. Norris Square was a vibrant, safe place by the time we visited; they became a destination for church groups and other community-oriented folks to witness their success story.
Here are the lessons I take home from this. People often cite urbanization as a barrier to community, yet this was an urban neighborhood. People often cite electronics and the information age as a barrier to community, yet this success story occurred recently. What they achieved was incredible, not a tweak here or there but revitalizing the whole community without any assistance from paternal sources.
During the journey I accumulated other stories revealing the importance of community of autonomy, but Norris Square still stands out for slamming home two important points: anything is possible with community and no excuses! Urbanization and the information age are overcome by simply belonging to others in community over belonging to other things first and foremost.
Beauty along the American Discovery Trail
Created for my talks on our journey.
College Community
I previously wrote about my life in the Jungle, a predominantly freshman dormitory complex at the University of Connecticut. There was a sense of community in our pioneering (back then) coed dorm that lead to a high return rate. My … Continue reading
Narayanan Krishnan
This is going viral without my help, but how can I not include it in a blog about kindness?