When I worked in Cornwall Bridge I passed an Appalachian Trail crossing in Falls Village on my way to and from work every day. Whenever I saw someone with a loaded backpack I pulled over the car and offered a … Continue reading
The Kindness of Long Distance Hikers
The Kindness of Lion Dennis
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I hiked over fifteen thousand miles before the start of the American Discovery Trail, but none of those miles required me to hike through an urban center. On the third day out the official ADT route required us to hike … Continue reading
The Kindness of my Nephew Tom
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We did not have to wait long for the first act of kindness along our journey. My nephew Tom lived a couple hours away from Point Reyes and intended to start hiking with us. That did not work out as … Continue reading
Prehike Kindness
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Before our journey along the American Discovery Trail even began we benefited from the kindness of family and friends. On the long drive out we stopped over at two of Ky’s relatives, nephew Curtis and sister Jeannie, and with two … Continue reading
Virtues Platform Recap
Over the past few months I’ve posted virtues associated with humanity, community and kindness. There’s one more set of virtues to share, those associated with journeying. Here’s a recap of all the virtues. Recall that these virtues are things that happen normally in the context of small band societies, with high autonomy and mobility. I’ve modified some as I continue to dwell on and refine the meaning of each.
Humanity Virtues
Autonomy
Belonging
Equality
Wisdom
Harmony
Community Virtues
Self-sufficient
Oneness
Networks
Responsibility
Affluence
Kindness Virtues
Empathy
Leisure
Humility
Courage
Faith
Journey Virtues
Physical development
Conceptual development
Emotional development
Social development
Spiritual development
Kindness Virtues – Faith
The last of the kindness virtues is faith. I define faith as believing in something you cannot know from experience. Usually this is applied to God, or something that transcends the material realm. We can experience things that transcend us, but such experiences are deeply spiritual and personal and we cannot share the meaning with others as we can with material experiences.
Faith also applies to our social lives. You never know for certain based on past experience the future direction of a society. To have faith in someone, a community or in humanity means believing in, but not knowing, their potential based on past experiences.
When I give presentations on kindness and community I wear a shirt that says “Believe in Humanity.” I have such faith in humanity for two reasons. Natural small band societies, autonomous communities, are tremendously diverse. Some of these societies we might abhor. Yet only in intimate communities with a large measure of autonomy is there universal access to the necessities of housing, food and health care. Genuine kindness resides in the context of a small community, not a large nation state. Experiential evidence based on what is natural for humans bolsters my faith. Civilized, large mass societies never have provided such evidence of adequately caring for all. There is much irony in what we view as “civilized” or “civility.”
The other reason is the reality that we tend to live up or down to expectations. Forget what is natural. If we believe the Enlightenment philosophers, modern economists or mass media that we naturally are bad, if we instead have faith in civilization when history reveals throughout the inhumanity of civilizations, we will live down to those base expectations with the forever unfulfilled hope that civilization will save us from ourselves. We work hardest for the causes we believe in. We must believe in ourselves, our intimate communities, to realize the kindness in us that makes the world a better place.





